What I've been reading in teacher spaces — and the truth I have to say out loud.
By Kim Lester
Teachers —
I've been reading comments in my groups. And I have to say — they irritated me greatly.
Not because teachers were complaining. But because of what teachers were saying about themselves. The self-blame. The quiet acceptance that somehow, if a child is struggling, it must come back to what the teacher did or didn't do.
I need to say something that nobody in your building is saying. That the professional development isn't saying. That the end-of-year survey definitely isn't saying.
You are not the problem.
You are not the only one responsible for a child's success in school. You are one piece of a very big puzzle. And it is long past time someone said that clearly.
Here's what nobody is asking about:
What happened in that child's home between 3 PM and 8 AM. What that child carried through the door before you ever greeted them. What was said — or not said — at the dinner table. Whether there was a dinner table. Whether there was dinner.
Nobody is asking those questions when a child struggles. But somehow, the answer always circles back to you.
Let me tell you what you actually did.
You showed up prepared. Every single day. You called home. You left emails and voicemails that may never have been returned. You stayed late. You tried again. You differentiated, accommodated, modified, extended, and intervened — often without adequate support, often without acknowledgment, and almost always without anyone asking what you needed to keep going.
And YOU are still the problem?
No. No, teacher.
You are not failing children. You are catching children that the system — and sometimes the adults around them — keep dropping. That is not failure. That is the quiet heroism that the profession runs on and almost never names.
Here is the real truth:
You deserve to have someone say that out loud. Because you should not have to choose between being a great teacher and being a whole person.
That is exactly why I created After the Bells.
Because teachers who keep showing up deserve real support — staying in the career they love without losing themselves in the process.
Give yourself the same care you give everyone else.
— Kim 🌿
After the Bells was built for the teacher who is still showing up — and deserves to come home to herself when the day is done.
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